Poompavai and the pot of ashes
In Mylapore lived a devotee named Sivanesan Chettiar. He had settled in his own mind that his daughter, Angam Poompavai, would marry the Saiva saint Tirujnanasambandar.
The girl died of a snakebite. Her father did not let the matter end there. He kept her ashes in a pot and waited for the saint.
When Sambandar came to Mylapore, the pot was put before him. He sang a set of ten verses in praise of the Lord of Mylapore — the hymn now known as the Poompavai patikam — and Poompavai was brought back to life.
The marriage her father had hoped for did not follow. Sambandar declined her hand: having given her life, he regarded himself as her father.
The episode is not only remembered at Mylapore; it is performed. On the morning of the Arupathumoovar day, the eighth day of the temple's annual festival, the images of the saint and of Sivanesan Chettiar are placed in pandals on the western bank of the temple tank. The temple's odhuvar sings the Poompavai patikam. A pot of jaggery covered with cloth stands in for the urn of ashes, and at the end the jaggery is shared out as prasadam. A matha on Adam Street, the Kunnakudi Tiruvannamalai Mutt, arranges the offerings for the saint's abhishekam and the gifts for Poompavai.
Later the same day Shiva comes out in procession to give darshan to the sixty-three Nayanmars, Sambandar among them — a procession that begins around three in the afternoon and runs for seven to eight hours.
The story explains three things a visitor sees: the image of Sambandar at the temple entrance, the ceremony at the tank on Arupathumoovar morning, and why a pot of jaggery is handed round as prasadam that day.
Where this account comes from
- Press: Madras Musings, Vol. XXXV No. 24, Karthik Bhatt, "Arupathumoovar – 116 years ago", 1–15 April 2026 madrasmusings.com · seen 2026-10-09
- Press: Hindu Press International, "Hundreds of Thousands Throng Chennai's Kapaleeswarar Temple for Festival", 7 April 2015 (report from Express News) hinduismtoday.com · seen 2026-10-09
- Government: Tamil Nadu Tourism (Government of Tamil Nadu), "The Kapaleeshwarar Temple" destination page (idol of Gnanasambandar at the entrance) tamilnadutourism.tn.gov.in · seen 2026-10-09